{"id":130,"date":"2024-11-21T13:43:52","date_gmt":"2024-11-21T13:43:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cinco.ie\/?p=130"},"modified":"2024-11-23T17:03:38","modified_gmt":"2024-11-23T17:03:38","slug":"how-to-improve-your-executive-presence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cinco.ie\/?p=130","title":{"rendered":"How to improve your Executive Presence"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"130\" class=\"elementor elementor-130\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2534db5 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2534db5\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-177f982 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"177f982\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-1024x576.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-298\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo-600x338.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cinco.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Executive-Presence-photo.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-669f1fee e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"669f1fee\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-546184d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"546184d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Executive Presence is a term that\u2019s thrown around quite loosely and is often the reason given to explain why someone didn\u2019t get a big promotion.\u00a0 It\u2019s rarely explained well to the individual, is very intangible and they don\u2019t really know what to do next.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>So \u2026 what is Executive Presence?<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s our ability to convince and inspire confidence in others that they are looking at someone who is \u2018important\u2019 and someone who is \u2018going places.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0 Imagine you are in a room and a new person walks in.\u00a0 In a few seconds, you will \u2018size them up.\u2019\u00a0 What are they wearing, do they look confident, what is the tone of their voice, etc.?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Based on elements like this, you will make a rapid \u2018call\u2019 about whether this is a senior person or not.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Here\u2019s a quick example :\u00a0 you\u2019re in the Boardroom with a number of other people and a person you don\u2019t know comes in (man or woman).\u00a0 They are wearing a sharp, freshly cleaned suit.\u00a0 Their shoulders are back, they are standing tall and they walk in with a confident air.\u00a0\u00a0 They move towards the top of the room and turn towards the group.\u00a0\u00a0 They scan the room making eye contact with everyone and in a very assured and positive voice, they say \u201cHi everyone, my name is \u2026, so nice to meet you all.\u201d \u00a0They sit down, face the group, continue to smile and make eye contact.\u00a0\u00a0 All of this might take 30 seconds.\u00a0 So, what \u2018call\u2019 did you about this person as you contemplated the scenario?\u00a0 You might have thought \u201cwow, they\u2019re cocky\u201d but you also probably considered that this is likely a senior person and that you were interested to tune into what they were going to say in the meeting.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>Why do you need to improve Executive Presence?<\/strong>\u00a0 \u00a0It\u2019s really only important if you want to operate at a senior level.\u00a0 If you\u2019ve been told you need to do something about your Executive Presence and you choose not to change then it\u2019s likely career will hit a \u2018ceiling.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0 Every company\u2019s culture is different.\u00a0 Maybe in your company, the senior people all wear shorts and flip flops.\u00a0 When you look deeper, you will find that there are common attributes that all of these Executives have.\u00a0 It\u2019s almost like a \u2018club.\u2019\u00a0 If you don\u2019t have those attributes too then you are deemed not to have Executive Presence and won\u2019t be allowed into the \u2018club.\u2019\u00a0 This may seem unfair but they are part of the unwritten \u2018rules of the promotion game.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0 If you want to move up the ladder, you need to play the game.\u00a0\u00a0 If you choose not to and you feel it\u2019s unfair, then that\u2019s ok but don\u2019t become frustrated when those senior promotions don\u2019t happen for you.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Here are our Top 5 Tips on how to improve your Executive Presence :<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.\u00a0 \u00a0Rate your current level of Executive Presence<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><em>\u201cNo man or woman attains a top job, lands an extraordinary deal or develops a significant following without the heady combination of confidence, poise, and authenticity that convinces the rest of us that we are in the presence of someone who is the real deal\u201d <\/em><strong>\u2013 Sylvia Ann Hewlett<\/strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>It\u2019s important to establish where you are starting from.\u00a0 There are many elements to Executive Presence but consider these 5 as you self assess :\u00a0\u00a0 Gravitas, Confidence, Communication, Assertiveness and Appearance.\u00a0\u00a0 Score yourself on a scale of 1 \u2013 10\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 (1 \u2013 significant weakness,\u00a0 10 \u2013 significant strength).\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Here are some definitions that should help :\u00a0<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:list -->\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li><em>Gravitas &#8211;<\/em>\u00a0 \u2018Carry\u2019 yourself in a way that causes feelings of respect and trust in others<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li><em>Confidence \u2013<\/em> Feel sure of yourself and your abilities<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li><em>Communication \u2013<\/em> Read your audience and get your point across in a way that lands with others.<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li><em>Assertiveness &#8211;<\/em> Stand up for your own or other people\u2019s rights in a calm &amp; positive way<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li><em>Appearance &#8211;<\/em> Be groomed, polished &amp; professional in keeping with your environment<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><\/ul>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>It\u2019s likely that you will have a mix of higher and lower scores so this will allow you to narrow in on the areas which needs most attention.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>2.\u00a0 \u00a0Shape how you want to be \u2018seen\u2019 by others<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><em>\u201cPeople assess your competency and trustworthiness in a quarter of a second based solely on how you look\u201d<\/em><strong> \u2013 Harvard School Research\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We know that we make rapid judgements all of the time.\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s not just speed that is the problem but we also make \u2018leaps of faith\u2019 based on one small piece of information.\u00a0 If we enter a restaurant and see a drink spilt on the floor, we will immediately think about the competency of the staff, the quality of the food and even tell ourselves that this isn\u2019t going to be a good night.\u00a0 \u00a0It may have just happened and been a complete accident but our brains don\u2019t tend to give the benefit of the doubt.\u00a0 We think 2+2=5 and usually that \u20185\u2019 answer is a negative thought.\u00a0 We\u2019ve often heard about the importance of \u2018making a good 1<sup>st<\/sup> impression\u2019 and this is where people\u2019s perception of your Executive Presence begins.\u00a0\u00a0 You need to \u2018show up\u2019 in the right manner \u2013 dress smartly, professionally and appropriately for the environment, stand up tall, walk with a confident air, make eye contact, speak with a strong voice and an assured tone.\u00a0 When someone sees you, they will read these signals and\u00a0 make the quick judgement that you are an \u2018important\u2019 person with a strong presence.\u00a0\u00a0 Of course, it\u2019s not just about the first impression.\u00a0 You need to sustain how you behave too.\u00a0 Consistently \u2018showing up\u2019 in this way will retain your Executive Presence and will just become part of how you are known to others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.\u00a0 \u00a0Be engaged and make your presence felt<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><em>\u201cIf your presence doesn\u2019t add value, your absence won\u2019t make a difference\u201d <\/em><strong>&#8211;\u00a0 Zero Dean<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Have you ever sat in a meeting and said nothing for the full duration?\u00a0\u00a0 You\u2019ve listened intently, taken all the information in but didn\u2019t feel comfortable speaking up or someone else jumped in with your point before you had a chance.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Maybe you\u2019ve watched as the usual people take all the \u2018air time.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Speaking non-stop and without making sense is equally damaging to your Executive Presence so it\u2019s important to find the right balance.\u00a0\u00a0 Be aware that sitting in silence isn\u2019t helping your profile or your career.\u00a0\u00a0 Leaders will often dismiss the people who don\u2019t get involved or those who are \u201call talk.\u201d.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0Others in the meeting may joke along with you but they will also see you as \u2018one of the crowd\u2019 and not someone who is \u2018going places.\u2019\u00a0 All of this is even worse in the virtual environment where people may not even know you\u2019re on the call if you don\u2019t participate.\u00a0\u00a0 Having a strong Executive Presence requires you to get involved.\u00a0\u00a0 Before the meeting even starts, decide that you\u2019re going to make a concerted effort to engage and speak up.\u00a0\u00a0 If an important point comes to mind, don\u2019t wait, jump in.\u00a0 Don\u2019t say \u201cmay I ask a question?\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 You\u2019ve been invited to the meeting so you don\u2019t need permission to speak.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 3 or 4 inputs in a meeting can be significant especially if they are meaningful contributions. \u00a0\u00a0If you tend to speak too much, cut back on your inputs and look to make strong points in a succinct way.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Afterwards, ask yourself if you were able to influence the direction of the meeting and make your presence felt. \u00a0\u00a0Think about what you might do differently next time.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Once you crack this, Leaders and others will see you in a very different light.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>4.\u00a0 \u00a0Make the first move in approaching and connecting with people<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><em>\u201cI define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued\u201d\u00a0 <\/em><strong>\u2013\u00a0 Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Building a network is really important for your career but it also builds your Executive Presence.\u00a0\u00a0 You can take a structured approach to this but there are also many chance or informal opportunities to build relationships.\u00a0\u00a0 If you don\u2019t know someone, why not make the first move.\u00a0 Introduce yourself, ask them what they do, get talking.\u00a0 See if you can connect them to someone else and maybe you will get a useful, additional contact too.\u00a0\u00a0 As you finish up the conversation, leave with the offer of help should they ever need it.\u00a0 The number of people that take you up on this will be pretty small but they leave feeling that you are there for them.\u00a0 You\u2019ll be amazed how often they end up helping you rather than the other way around.\u00a0\u00a0 Making the first move might not be natural for you but try it.\u00a0 The more you do it, the easier it gets.\u00a0 You\u2019ll also find how work events are so much more enjoyable as you know a large number of people and can feel you\u2019re amongst friends.\u00a0\u00a0 Lastly, don\u2019t worry about the level of people you engage with.\u00a0 Senior Executives are just regular people too.\u00a0\u00a0 Treat them like you would a peer (adult to adult) rather than falling into the trap of becoming the \u2018child\u2019 with them being the \u2018parent.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0 They will respect you more and it will raise their perception of you as many people are too afraid to speak to them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>5.\u00a0 \u00a0Video yourself to raise self awareness and then practice, practice, practice \u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:list --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><em>\u201cExperience tells you what to do, Confidence allows you to do it.\u201d\u00a0 <\/em><strong>\u2013\u00a0 Stan Smith<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We all have a perception of how we look, sound and behave.\u00a0 Generally, it\u2019s different to what others perceive.\u00a0\u00a0 Personally, I\u2019ve found looking at myself on camera really painful but when I analyse it as if it\u2019s someone else, I see so many things that can be improved.\u00a0\u00a0 Being recorded can often bring a nervousness that\u2019s similar to what you might experience when presenting or interacting during a meeting.\u00a0\u00a0 It gives us an insight into what other people see.\u00a0\u00a0 Try to present something to the camera and when you watch back, note some of the negatives but search hard for the times where you look like that senior person \u2013 comfortable, confident, professional.\u00a0\u00a0 What are you doing and what are you saying during those moments?\u00a0 Really tune into those instances and determine how you can make them into your \u2018normal\u2019 way of behaving.\u00a0 It will take practice but when you know what you\u2019re trying to do, it becomes much easier and of course, will get better with time.\u00a0\u00a0 Ask trusted supporters for feedback and have them watch you in meetings or during presentations.\u00a0\u00a0 Executive Presence can be learned.\u00a0 It does take hard work but is one of the major steps you can take should your career start to hit a \u2018ceiling.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0 Once you\u2019ve been able to get to that first Executive position, you are in the \u2018club\u2019 and can now pursue further levels beyond that.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I hope you found this helpful.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If you\u2019d like us to help you in any way, feel free to email me at <a href=\"mailto:tommy@cinco.ie\">tommy@cinco.ie<\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Thanks!!!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Executive Presence is a term that\u2019s thrown around quite loosely and is often the reason given to explain why someone didn\u2019t get a big promotion.\u00a0 It\u2019s rarely explained well to the individual, is very intangible and they don\u2019t really know what to do next. 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